“Black tie” – Two words I seem to see on an invitation now more than ever. I am not complaining… but it means that the question “what will I wear” becomes even more complicated. How many black tie outfits do you have at the ready? Since September, I have been asked to wear black tie 4 times. My most recent outfit for a wedding I think is my most successful, and my most versatile.
In January, Nick and I were invited to Matt & Sarah’s wedding in DC – the dress code? Black tie. This time, armed with some Christmas money, I went out looking for a dress that was more versatile – something that could go with me to any number of black tie Oxford events, and be appropriate for a wedding.
Exactly what you would expect looking for that one great dress that will work for everything, my search was long. But I ended up with a fantastic black skirt and a few tops. The skirt was easy to find, and I instantly fell in love. The tops were much more difficult – mostly, because of the black satin look to the skirt. Matching black’s was next to impossible, and finding things in colour and in the right fabric was much more complicated when looking in January.
Coast Clothing, Meslita Skirt
Zara, Velvet Peplum Top
I found the skirt at Debenham’s here in Oxford, and lucked out with a few great sales at Zara where I found this velvet v-neck peplum top from Zara.
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Overall, the outfit was a hit! I had a few people come up to me telling me how much they liked my dress. I think my favourite was one of the more elderly guests suggested that only girls with small chests could pull off my top (wink).
Back in September, my trip to Paris with Emily called for one black tie outfit – saved by Primark – I thought It went pretty well. The black jumpsuit that I picked up was a great fit and easy to dress up and down.
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In October, I rented a dress from ChicbyChoice (the Rent the Runway of the UK) for the Oxford Union Masquerade ball. The reason that I rented a dress was because I couldn’t seem to justify spending upwards of £100 on the dresses that I was finding – nothing seemed to be what I was looking for. This black and gold t-shirt, full length dress was perfect – and after wearing it, I just shipped it back.
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Since then, the same “Paris” outfit came in handy for Nick’s MBA Christmas party. The strapless navy dress I have just didn’t seem appropriate for a winter event. I was actually one of two girls wearing a black jumpsuit at the event – and likely one of the most comfortable at the afterparty.
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Since attending all of these events, I have come up with a few rules for black tie. Following these will keep you well within the ‘traditional’ guidelines for Black Tie events:
- Black is always an easy choice – and is incredibly versatile
- Add a little sparkle – earrings, necklace, bracelets – anything to add a little more
- Red lips are always classic
- Keep it below the knee – whether you’re going for a tea length or full length, to me, black tie means long(er)
There are a few more events coming up this spring that I will have to bring out the black tie skirt for again – maybe with an update to my jewels and top.